Hey, any excuse for a list. And this one is devoted to the littlest dude in the family with a shoutout to Daddy-oh. 1. I love the way you shout random things as a makeshift sentence: “Big one truck, class, snack, Aiden, car!” 2. I love how ridiculously excited you get when you see a [...]
Archive for the ‘Adoption’ Category
Ten+ things I love about you
Posted in Adoption, Parenting on February 14, 2012 | 13 Comments »
What I learned this January
Posted in Adoption, Parenting on February 1, 2012 | 7 Comments »
This is part of Amber Strocel’s monthly review link-up. In January, I learned a few things: It’s nice to take a break from writing about adoption. I have lots to say on the subject but thought I’d kick off the New Year on a lighter note. I’m not the only mother stunned by their sons’ boyish tendencies. It’s [...]
Never say never again
Posted in Adoption, Parenting on January 17, 2012 | 28 Comments »
This week’s “Listacles” topic came from Greta at Not Enough Patience and Never Enough Jewelry: 10 things you said you’d never do but have caught yourself doing. Ten things I said I’d never do as a parent: 1. Feed my child pre-packaged snacks. Only whole grains and home-made EVERYTHING for my child. Picky eaters are spoiled [...]
The Year in Review
Posted in Adoption, Parenting on December 31, 2011 | 9 Comments »
Here are some of the posts that stood out for me over the last year. January: Theo turned 18 months, and I called him a marvel and a terror. I also wrote about “Saying Goodbye to the Nuclear Family.” February: I answered some “Frank Questions About Open Adoption.” March: I got angry and wrote “Don’t [...]
A birthmother’s perspective
Posted in Adoption, tagged Adoption, birthmom on December 28, 2011 | 6 Comments »
I met Monika, who is a birthmom, on Twitter and we chatted about doing an interview exchange (a concept borrowed from our favorite site: Open Adoption Blogs). She’s friendly and open about placing her daughter for adoption, which she blogs about at Monika’s Musings. Her interview with me is on her blog. Why or how did [...]
Wordless Wednesday – the haircut edition
Posted in Adoption, Parenting, tagged African, haircut, transracial adoption on December 14, 2011 | 8 Comments »
Before During After
What not to say
Posted in Adoption, tagged Adoption, what not to say on November 25, 2011 | 12 Comments »
I’m sure most of you are bored of my What Not To Say tirades but I was approached by Mommyish.com to write a What Not To Say to an Adoptive Parent, I couldn’t resist. I wanted to underscore that all questions are okay in the right context and also give perspective on why an adoptive [...]
Adoption Guilt
Posted in Adoption, tagged adoption guilt on November 14, 2011 | 30 Comments »
Some families see adoption as a way to save a child from poverty or worse. Some see it as a way to offer a better future, a safe home or even as an eco-friendly family expansion option (yes really). And for most, adoption fulfills a primal need to care for a child, a way to [...]
Wordless Wednesday: Family Fun Day
Posted in Adoption, Parenting on November 9, 2011 | 6 Comments »
We went to a Family Fun Day sponsored by The Adoptive Families Association as part of Adoption Awareness Month. The event took place at Burnaby Village and featured face painting, a crazy balloon man, hotdogs, and the pièce de résistance: a carousel. It was great to go with a toddler who wants to (and can) [...]
What I learned in October
Posted in Adoption, Parenting, tagged Adoption, Parenting, transracial on November 3, 2011 | 15 Comments »
Here are some of my October learnings as inspired by www.strocel.com I can go away for a week, and the world will continue to rotate. My first vacation sans enfant to Ontario went smoothly for me and on the home front thanks to several sleep-overs at Lolo’s. Apparently, Theo asked for me several times a day. [...]
